Recommendations to planning a meeting in real
If we are talking about the first meeting ever, we should warn you that you do not know real intentions of the woman you were corresponding with, you know only what you could see from letters, so avoid sending money to her, as she might appear to be a scammer who will take the money and disappear. The best way to meet for the first time is to meet in your girl’s country. This way you won’t have to send money to someone you have never seen in real with a risk of loosing it. Besides, you will be able to see your woman in her natural surroundings, her living conditions, to meet her family and friends. All this will give you a clearer picture of her as a person.
Again, when it is your first visit to your girl, we advise you to stay in a hotel, not at her place. No matter how good you seem to know each other from letters, and how deeply attracted you are, you should check if you feel the same in real, and only after this you can come and stay at her home and it won’t give any harm.
You should take good care of your documents including your passport. You are in a strange country, so you should do your best to keep them safe. Making several copies of them will let you do it, and keep originals in a safe place.
Bring a nice souvenir or some other small present to your Russian lady. She will be touched by it, especially if it was chosen taking into consideration her interests and likes, and she will appreciate it much. Besides, it will remind her of you each time she looks at it after you already return home. This will make her feel closer to you. If a woman has a child or two, bring them something either. This can be a nice toy, or some sweets that children like so much. You will win their good attitude which is very important for your further family relations.